Welcome Guest Blogger Cindy Kirk!

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I really appreciate the opportunity to stop by and guest blog. My name is Cindy Kirk and my first contemporary romance for Avon is now on the shelves! The title is When She Was Bad…,which BTW was my working title for it, so I was pleased when they kept it.

What is the book about? Thank you for asking. In a nutshell (what is a nutshell anyway??)… When She Was Bad is about a woman who leads two lives. One as boring accountant Jenny Carman (this is who she really is) The other as sexy hairdresser Jasmine Coret (this is who she wishes she could be).

ck How did I get the idea for this book? Anyone out there ever make up a boyfriend or change your life facts to make yourself more interesting?? Since you can’t see me, I’ll tell you that my hand is now waving wildly in the air.

When I was a freshman in high school my girlfriend and I made up boyfriends. They were brothers. Mine was Robert (my hero’s name in this book) and hers was Joe. They were rich and cute and totally devoted to us. They also lived out of town…an easy way to explain why our other friends hadn’t met them.

Do I see some other hands in the air now? C’mon, I’m sure I’m not the only one….

As far as altering facts about my life…I’ve never done that but I have a funny story that happened to a friend. She went on a cruise, became friendly with a guy from New York and at the end of the cruise they decided to try a long distance relationship….problem was he had to tell her that he’d given her a made-up name and occupation at the beginning of the cruise!! Suddenly she was no longer interested in continuing a relationship with a liar.

That’s what happens in When She Was Bad. The lies start out innocent enough but soon Jenny is in over her head. Robert is everything she’s ever wanted (every bit as good as my made-up boyfriend) but she knows she’ll lose him if she tells the truth. I was stressed writing the book….worried they wouldn’t get together in the end. Okay….so that’s not quite the truth. I was worried I couldn’t bring them together in a convincing way…almost the same thing, right?

I’d love to hear your stories of made-up boyfriends and lies told in the name of fun. Please, please, please, don’t make me look like the only one who ever stretched the truth…

Made Up Boyfriends

Cindy your book sounds great! And I have something to confess... I had a made up boyfriend my sophomore year in high school. I was trying to attract the attention of another guy and my friend and I thought I would become more alluring if I had tales of a wild and crazy boyfriend. His name was Nick. I got the attention of the other guy but never told him about the fake Nick. I forgot I even did that until I read about yours! So don't feel alone, I did it too! ;) Karen

Nick

Nick is one of my favorite guy names. I think I should have named my imaginary boyfriend Nick.

Truth Stretching

Wasn't that what high school was for? To rebel*grins* I used to lie about my age all the time to go out with a college guy. Does anyone else remember having a phone boyfriend? I swear a friend of mine hooked me up with some guy and all we did was taalk on the phone, I don't even remember meeting him in person.(dorky,I know) Hugs,Danette http://nenscl.blogspot.com

College boyfriends

These comments are bringing back all sorts of memories. I remember going to college parties when I was in high school...and saying I was in college. It always stressed me out when anyone would ask my major...thankfully my answer "haven't decided yet" usually worked well. Still, I was always afraid they'd ask what classes I had etc. The funny thing was I went to socialize not drink. In fact I never drank at those parties...and nobody pushed me to drink because they always thought I'd had too much already---I was an extremely hyper, giggly teen. :)

Lol

I don't remember being asked my major,but undecided would be the best answer.*g* Hugs,Danette http://nenscl.blogspot.com

Waving wildly, also

Cindy, I am over here waving frantically. I have made up things..... Living in my head is fun. :) I love your cover and that tat......well can I say badass? oops if not. Looking forward to reading this story and more of yours that I am sure to come. I find that embracing aspects of my personality that I wish were true (like being a sex kitten) help me to build my confidance in real situations. Also, I agree that in junior high and high school I had soem phone only boyfriends also. Good Luck and thanks for stopping by to introduce yourself and your story and to basically chat. Debbie

Phone Only boyfriends

Wow! That brings back memories. I'd forgotten about phone only boyfriends. I remember one guy...we used to have the best conversations...I thought we were soulmates...then I met him in person...not a bit of sizzle.

the tangled web

I'm struggling with this in my current WIP - it is looking like another case of 'mistaken identity' - the heroine then playing along with it - but that makes her a liar, and I'm really not comfortable with relationships built on deception. I know it is a hugely popular device in romance.... very frustrating to find a workable alternative. I don't remember inventing a fake boyfriend, but I'm pretty sure I'd played up my past life as being far more exiting and sophisticated than it really was. So more a case of embroidering the truth! I did have a bit of a phone relationship with a guy on the local radio once, when I was a teenager, but when I met him in person, there wasn't even a glimmer of chemistry.

Lies

I think that the lies have to be well motivated for the plot to work and for the hero or heroine to be sympathetic. The plots that I have the most trouble with are revenge ones...I guess I must not be a big revenge person.

Hi Cindy

Welcome to Cigars and thank you for taking the time to blog with us. Although I never had a make believe boyfriend, I did Lie about my age a lot. I always looked older than I really was so it came naturally to me to let people think that I was older. I did and still do have a fantasy man but, he stays in my dreams. If I ever tried to make him into a real life man, nobody would believe me because he's so perfect. Again, I thank you for blogging with us and have a great weekend. Mads:)

I never made up a boyfriend, etc

But I used to chat online a lot (used to? LOL) and that's where I met my husband, and I think with people I wasn't sure of online I did bend facts to create more of a persona, not really let someone know my real self until I trusted them.

In my books, though, I let my characters lie like crazy, LOL. In About Last Night... that was the biggest whopper, when Miranda tells Colin they slept together after he has an accident and short-term amnesia. I would never have done that, but Miranda, well, she was a "go for it" kinda gal. ;)

Lies in fiction, romantic fiction particularly, are a huge device, but it is tough sometimes to have a character lie outright and still make them likable or sympathetic. Some people really hated Miranda for her lie, but you know, her hero understood in the end, so that's all that matters. ;)

Sam

I haven't exactly made up a

I haven't exactly made up a boyfriend. I would have my friends that were guys act like they were my boyfriend to make the other guy jealous. lol. Great cover and the book sounds great!

Raising my hand too

Hi Cindy, great to meet you!! Too I love that cover and the blurb too!! Can I ask what the sensuality of the story is? Too, can you tell us is the tatoo is related in the book and how you pictured it? I like it! Ah, my story, LOL. It was mostly a boyfriend that just involved stolen kisses behind the garage, my first kisses. I was maybe 14 or so, in Junior HS and he was my neighbor. He went to a private school while I went to the city schools, so I always thought I could "add a little bit" about us and no one would know. I "added" he was going to take me to the carnival that they had each winter with winter games and hot chocolate and all. But I could never get the guts to ask him! So I ended up telling others that he couldn't come. So lo and behold, he shows up at the carival, but what a great guy, cuz when others asked why we didn't come together, he didn't reply to them, and I ended up pulling him aside and telling him I wanted to ask him but was afraid to so he stood up for me through it! LOL. I was lucky. I know I did others, so I'm raising my hand too.

Since you asked...

I don't know if this is the same thing but: When I first moved from Europe to the US I was really embarrassed by my accent. There was also a minor backlash at the time (where I was living) about hiring only people with American accents. So I tried to "sound" American. I couldn't really pull it off though so wound up taking elocution lessons to lose my accent. The funniest part of it all is that I had a British accent and when I'm very shy or very quiet it still comes out and people fawn all over it. Now to sound British, I have to stop and think about it! ani