Halloween

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Sorry you have to hear from me twice in a row, folks, but our schedule and the technical problems kind of got messed around, so I hope you don't mind another blog from me. I'll throw in a nice contest prize for this week, to make it worth your while. ;) I saw a pretty fabric journal yesterday (pictured below), and I don't use journals, but couldn't resist the colors, so post on this blog, and tomorrow I'll pick a winner from registered users. :)

So, Halloween. Arguably my favorite holiday except for Thanksgiving (I love Thanksgiving because there's no pressure, it's just about the food! LOL).

pumpkins.jpgI don't dress up, but I love cutting out jack-o-lanterns and having a bowl of candy by the door. It's a disappointment that in recent years fewer kids trick-or-treat. I understand why, but still wish I lived in a busier trick-or-treating neighborhood. I loved trick-or-treat when I was a kid, and I don't think running around the mall getting treats from stores, etc., is the same as being out in costume in the dark, in the crisp October air with glowing pumpkins all around.

Now, all grown up, we always watch our favorite Buffy episodes, and eat white cupcakes, which I read was a Celtic custom associated with the holiday that said how many cupcakes you ate were how many spirits would watch over you in the coming year. We sometimes would do a "New Years" tarot reading, since Samhain or Halloween is the pagan New Year, and in various years have picked up other traditional customs.

journal.jpgThis year will probably be our most unusual Halloween as my niece is getting married on Halloween evening. It's a courthouse wedding with a party at the house after, no costumes, but it will be fun. My family has gotten together every year or so around the holiday for a night where we all cut out our pumpkins, have food, and then we'll put all of the cut pumpkins on a table, shut the lights, and see them all glowing in a group. I love doing that. I couldn't find any party pictures of our pumpkins, but I did have this one of our two last year.

The wedding will be a little different, but fun, all the same. Though next year we'll be back to our more traditional celebrations.

How about you? Do you do anything special on Halloween, or what was your most unusual Halloween? Tell me, and you might win this pretty journal.

Unfortunately

I live in a neighbourhood where my two sons (the youngest turning 17 this coming Sat) were the only kids. Some other kids moved in 2 years ago but they're also 15 and 17.

No trick or treaters here and I miss it. I loved the excitement and the costumes.

The elementary school featured Trick or Treat Street. Parents would volunteer to decorate classroom doors and man them. We also provided the treats. Most of the lights would be turned off and the kids would knock on the decorated doors for treats. It was fun but not quite the same. Still for rainy Washington, it meant you actually got to see costumes and not just outdoor gear with a mask above.

My job before this, we'd dress up. Everyone who dressed up got $5 (to buy lunch). Then everyone would vote and the winner got another $20. I'm happy to say I won a couple of times.

One year I dressed up all punk and no one recognized me when I reported to work!

Another year, I made a costume out of brown paper bags (skirt, hat and vest). I went as a "bag lady".

I won both those times.

I asked my son if he'd like to have a combo birthday/Halloween party this year but he's going to a concert instead.

I told my husband when we retire, I want to move somewhere where we can pass out to trick or treaters but it may be an urban myth by that time.

ani

I only had

I only had one job where we dressed up, years ago. It was fun. :)

Mike and I always talk about hosting a Halloween party, a real adult costume party, and maybe we will one of these years...

Your costumes sound like such a riot. I would love to dress up as M&M's since those are mine and Mike's real first initials, LOL, but he doesn't want the bulky costume...

Your son was born on Halloween? That would be tough -- all the other kids are busy! Did you normally just have the party the next day?

Sam

I wasn't clear

My son's birthday is October 25th. I just thought since he's older he might like to combine his birthday and Halloween and have a party this year. We have a huge play room, with a pool table, that they kids could have partied in. But he's opted to go to a concert instead.

Years ago (I'd forgotten about this until you mentioned an adult costume party), I went to a Halloween costume dressed as...Eve!

I bought a beige string bikini (panties) and got some fig leaves that I attached to the front and back. I stuck bandaids on my breasts that I'd attached grape leaves to (the fig leaves were scratchy). I had long hair and wore a daisy chain anklet and a snake bracelet on my upper arm.

I wouldn't have the nerve to do anything like that now but I was in my early 20s and skinny!

How fun!

Congrats to your niece and your family! That will be a very memorable Halloween, and what a fun anniversary for her and her husband to enjoy!

We tend to be kind of boring people when it comes to Halloween--we don't go out of our way to go all out, but we usually don't hide in the back with our lights out either ;) Except for the one year when we completely forgot it was Halloween (our oldest was a baby that year so it wasn't as if the kids were clamoring to dress up)--we met up after work and went out to dinner (it seemed slightly quiet at the restaurant that night, but it didn't register on the radar). We realized as we drove home what we'd missed--huge oops!

Trick or treat

This was always so much fun but I fear it is fading out as more horror stories come out evey year. Our best memories are of our first year in our condo (since sold). We had a big bay window and made our traditional pumkin man and put him in the window. Both of us dresssed up and man the kids kept coming. I think they all decided it was an easy way to get to a lot of houses in a short time as there were 216 units in a fairly small area. My poor husband had to run out and buy more treats and ended up getting juice boxes as the store had sold out of treats as well. We ended up with over 350 kids. It was a good thing we had decided quite early in the evening to only give one treat per kid. Now in our nieghborhood we have gone from over 150 kids to around 30 last year. The numbers have been shrinking steadily and we don't decorate as much as a result.

Man

Okay, 350 would be way too many. I think I would just close the door, LOL. One hundred or one hundred fifty doesn't sound too bad, especially since they come in groups.

I think parents listen to the horror stories too much, to be honest. As long as you are with your kids, they're safe, and you simply don't eat the candy, or you can go to the police station to have it checked. Or I have friends who let their kids trick or treat, but then they dump the candy and just give them their own at home.

I think the experience is really the key. So much being lost there.

Sam

I agree

my nieces and nephews still take their kids out and the experience is good for them. One of the kids has allergies so he's always got candy to bargain with. He is getting quite good as the years go by. I am actually semi happy that we don't have as many kids coming as I buy less candy and OD less on mini-chocolate bars. Has any else noticed that they shrink each year?

Fedora, it will be fun

Though I have to admit, I would not pick a holiday as my wedding, especially Halloween, as when you have kids, you'll be spending every anniversary trick-or-treating, making treats for school, costumes, etc. But, it's their thing, and we'll enjoy it.

LOL on missing the whole thing. That's what I would like to do with Xmas. I would be happy if we just had Halloween and Thanksgiving and just let it be there.

Sam

I live in town and get a

I live in town and get a lot(75-100) goblins every year. It is a small town and so far there have been no problems with trick or treating.
I stay home on Halloween to see all kids in their costumes and to hand out goodies.

I'm envious!

We had.. 2 last year. We really celebrate for our own amusement, but I'd love to live on a real Trick-or-Treat street someday.

Sam

Staying Home

I think I'm staying home this Halloween and avoid being pelted by eggs. Egg throwing is pretty common occurrence here.

ick

That's terrible. Luckily, we don't have any problems with that kind of thing...

I do remember in the college town where I did my BA, I would drive there (I didn't live on campus) and driving in the morning after Halloween the entire street was garlanded with TP, LOL. It was actually kind of cool...

A mess to clean up, though...

Sam

I love journals and would

I love journals and would love to win this one.
Halloween used to be pumpkin lit in window, skeleton hanging in window and spider web but has changed over the years. Now we don't decorate as much but we still give out treats and sometimes I make up candy bags as I'm doing this year. The # of halloweeners has been very low but I attribute this to some years the snow has come. It will be so sad this year as our puppy(14 yrs. old)had to be put to sleep and won't be around to get all excited over the kids coming.

Buddy!

You actually won the contest I had running before, and I haven't heard from you yet, LOL - it's announced down below.

I'm sorry to hear about your dog. :(

Maybe time for a new puppy this holiday?

Sam

thanks so much for letting

thanks so much for letting me know; I've e-mailed you Samantha.

Halloween

I have a 2 and a 5 year old who I take to a local event called Trunk or Treat. The kids dress up in their costumes and sometimes I do too. My daughter is going to be Mulan this year. My son will be Bumblebee the Transformer. I have not gotten myself a costume so not sure if I will dress up this year. Now that my son is 5 I thought he and I could bake cookies this year and decorate them together.

Halloween

I quit celebrating Halloween many years back when our street began having groups of teenage kids drive in from all over the city and go door to door for candy and then they began to do damage to decorations, etc. Also since I live alone I have grown wary of opening my door to anyone I don't know. There is a church a couple of blocks from me that has a carnival for Halloween and that seems to keep the "fun" concentrated in that area.
PS. I use journals all the time and am always buying them. I love the fabric ones and the ones with special pictures on them instead of just plain.

this is such a problem Ellen

I hate when it gets destructive. One bonus for me this year with the Halloween wedding is that my Dad, who is 89 and lives alone (though we all are down there watching after him a lot) but he gets adult men, etc coming to the door for candy. It's very intimidating, but we can't get him to stop doing trick-or-treat. We invite him over, and sometimes go there, or such, but it's scary in that you don't know who could come to the door of a person living alone. That makes me mad, really.

Sam

marching band

We always look forward to seeing the little (and sometimes not so little) trick or treaters in my suburban neighborhood each year, from the teeny tiny to the teenagers hoping to get one last Halloween in before someone tells them they're too old to be out and about asking for candy from their neighbors. We generally have a constant stream of children coming by after the neighborhood pizza party, a tradition that started here when my girls were young and we wanted our kids to have something besides candy in their bellies that evening. The past few years I usually have made chili that night and filled candy bags ahead of time so the husband doesn't even have to think about how much to give each little ghost or goblin, princess or pirate that rings the bell.

This year however, Friday night football takes priority as my daughter is in the marching band so no trick or treating for her and no chili for me as I will be chaperoning. She and a group of friends had hoped to sneak at least one more in this year, until they realized what night Halloween falls on.

Sam, I like your idea of a Buffy marathon. I have several of the seasons on DVD so perhaps I will catch a few episodes before heading over to the game. I wish FX would start showing the re-runs again. I quit watching that network when they gave up on Buffy.

We are such Buffy heads...

We each pick one or the Halloween epis for Halloween, the Thanksgiving epi for, well, Turkey Day, LOL and there are several Christmas Buffies, too, though I like "Amends"

A Buffy for all seasons. *G*

Sam

My mom was born on

My mom was born on Halloween, so it's always been a special day for me. And I love to dress up, so double special. I have a great mummy costume I made by sewing long strips of muslin to thermal underwear. It's classic and it took forever to make. I'm always re-wrapping myself when I wear it to school--with Converse All Star tennis shoes, of course. I made one for my son when he was five and we were "Mummy and Son".

My daughter so hated people looking at her that she wouldn't wear a costume when she was little. Finally we got her to wear one when she was six or seven. I got her into her mousy costume long enough for pictures when she was five. But then off it came. She dressed as a little girl for trick or treat.

Jeannie

mwahaha

There was almost a party we went to as a family last year, my 89 year old dad included, and he wouldn't wear a costume, so I'd planned to borrow from Buffy again and get him a "My Name Is" sticker and just write GOD on it. LOL

Not everyone wants to dress up, I guess. *G*

Sam

We don't do anything out of the ordinary...

and this year my youngest (10) said he was done trick or treating. I was so bummed. Then he saw an ad for costumes and decided he wasn't too old after all. Thank God, because I was really looking forward to those mini Butterfingers and Reese's cups! ;-)

This year, I'm dressing up my little Havanese as a biker chick, too. We have a leftover Build-a-Bear pleather jacket and a bandana for her. Now if I can just find a studded black collar and bow, I'll be all set ;-)

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oh man

I hope we're going to see a picture of the Havanese here the Saturday after Halloween... ;)

Mike won't let me dress up the dogs, though we do put antlers on them for Christmas -- for about 5 minutes, LOL.

Sam

I live in apartment building

I live in apartment building and the children aren't allowed to go door to door. We are told to bring donations of treats to the front office(leftovers are then donated to food bank or shelter). Since there are 7 buildings in this complex we have a hall. For Halloween that is where the treats are given out, resident have been invited there to watch the parade of trick or treaters and also refreshments.
At the retirement home I worked at it was hard dressing up because we had to choose a costume that still allowed us the freedom to move and do our job.
One year when I worked at the greenhouse and attended a Halloween party I borrowed the outfit I wore at work at times when spraying plants with herbicides or pesticides of white suit, mask, rubber boots, rubber gloves. Needless to say nobody at the party recognized me until I took mask off and I also won second prize that year.
I think with more scares arising more and more parents are arranging Halloween parties or arranging their child(ren) to attend those.

Sam, my younger daughter

Sam, my younger daughter loves Halloween and in past years, had her costume all picked out and ready to go weeks before the actual event. She's in the sixth grade now and technically, this is her last year of trick-or-treating, so I was shocked when she said she didn't want to go! She said that last year she had a lot of people comment that she was too old for trick-or-treating, which I'm sure was because she's so tall (she was 5'5" at ten years old, and a year later is 5'8" tall). I think I've persuaded her to go, as I know she would regret it later if she didn't. I think the most unusual Halloween I had was the one year they canceled trick-or-treat in our town due to safety concerns and instead had a party at the local elementary school. They did a great job with the party, had prizes for the different costumes and lots of food and beverages and dancing, but it felt off.

That's so hard

You know, people can be rotten. I mean, c'mon, they have to be able to tell she's young.

I think a party would feel off too. It kind of bothers me on some basic principle -- of course we want kids safe, but we shouldn't teach them to hide from the world, either, you know?

Sam

Winner!

And the winner is....

Fedora!

Send me your email, and I can put your new journal in the mail soon. Congrats! I hope you enjoy it :)

Sam

Congrats!!

Good for you, Fedora!!

Thank you!

And thanks, Ani! Now if I could just win some time to write in it ;)

Keep watching the contests

You never know-- if we can find a way to get some extra time for you, we will. ;)

Sam