Just Another Manic Monday!

Karen Foley's picture

Did you ever have one of those days when you should have stayed in bed? Today could have been one of those days.

I planned to be in the office by 6 a.m. this morning so that I could be home in time to pick my daughter up from play practice at 4 p.m. We had an ice storm during the night, and when I went out to warm up my car, I took one step onto the driveway and ended up flat on my back with the wind knocked out of me. And I wrenched my shoulder trying to grab onto the doorframe to stop my fall.

I haven't actually driven my car since early last week, so not only was it covered in snow, but it was also encased in a thick layer of ice and I could not get the door open. But that didn't matter because when I looked down, I saw my rear tire was completely flat. Squashed like a pancake flat. I didn't even know that rubber could wrinkle that flat!

After wrestling the door open, I started the engine and then went into the basement to get my husband's air compressor (Jeannie, I think I may join you in making a New Year's resolution to clear out the basement! I nearly killed myself trying to haul it out.). The thing weighs a ton, and after I dragged it outside to the dark and frozen driveway, I realized I had absolutely no idea how it worked. So even though I'd been determined to do this on my own, I had to wake my husband and have him help me, and I was thankful that he didn't say one word of reproach to me (like why I hadn't noticed this tire before). All he asked was why I hadn't woken him up right away.

Finally, after what seemed like ages, I was on my way to work. I had less than a quarter of a tank of gas, but enough to get me to work. The roads were icy, and I had to keep my speed down, but it was only when I was more than half way to the office (a thirty mile commute) that I realized I'd forgetten my Government ID card. Without this card, I can't get into my office. I can't even log into my computer without first inserting this card into a special reader. So basically, if I don't have the card I might as well not even show up for work.

So I turned around and headed home. By the time I reached the house, my gas tank was on empty, my shoulder was killing me, I hadn't had my coffee, and I was very, very cranky. I called my husband to let him know I was on my way home, and that he should just plan on going to work as soon as I returned. No sense in both of us being late.

But my husband met me in the hallway with a steaming travel mug of dark roast, and put me behind the wheel of his brand new, toasty warm SUV that had a full tank of gas, assuring me he'd be fine with my car. So instead of feeling cranky and sorry for myself, I feel like today is going to be a good day! Sometimes it's the little things (like fresh-brewed coffee and a sympathetic smile) that make all the difference.

If you have any stories of how someone made a difference in your day recently, I'd love to hear them! Happy Monday!

He's a keeper

hope your day gets better.

Thanks, Kaelee! It's

Thanks, Kaelee! It's definitely improving!

Lucky You

I'd say you are one of the very lucky ones (in spite of the fall, frozen locks, flat tire, lack of gasoline, and having to go back home for your card). You have a wonderful husband.

Yes, Ellen, he's definitely

Yes, Ellen, he's definitely a keeper!

Ah Karen--I misted up at the

Ah Karen--I misted up at the hot cup of coffee and warm SUV. I don't know why days snowball like that, but I think it's because if the incidents were doled out one a day, then everyday would be sucky. Actually, this one sounds like it's going to be excellent--you got all the bad stuff taken care of already. :)

Thanks, Jeannie!

And here I thought you were getting all misty because I was going to join you on your clean-basement campaign, LOL!

Yes, I think I've fulfilled my weekly quota of unfortunate events this morning! Things can only get better from here.

Wow!

May all your terrible days be as this one, Karen! Clearly much can be overcome by the love of a good man who knows how to make a good cup of coffee :) Yay for you both!

I definitely agree that sometimes a small gesture is all it takes--a friendly smile, someone taking the time to say a heartfelt thank you... it's amazing how kindness does truly make a difference!

Hope your day's terrific!

Thanks, Fedora!

When I was younger, if I was having a terrible day or feeling especially low, any kind gesture or sign of sympathy would send me into tears. I don't know why. Thankfully, I'm over that, which is good, since my husband sort of panics if I cry. Too funny.

great guy

wow he really knew how to turn your day around
I think my sucky day was yesterday. Woke at 5 yesterday with a full blown cold(the kind where you have to open your mouth to breath)slopped on the Vapor rub on chest and throat, laid warm wash cloth on it and went back to bed and read for 2 hours. When I finally did get up, My coffee maker didn't work(guess someone is telling me to drink tea LOL) Anyways today is a little better(I can breath through nose, with difficulty but it can be done)went grocery shopping(have good drugs now LOL and honey for lemon tea) and new coffee maker.

Christa, hugs on the yucky

Christa, hugs on the yucky cold; I hate when I can't breathe through my nose. And to have your coffee maker betray you like that...unforgivable! Glad that you're on the road to recovery, with coffee making capabilities fully restored!

Oh, Karen, how awful...and

Oh, Karen, how awful...and how lovely! And to think we're here, praying for snow, just a little snow before the winter ends...

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Hope your day was

Hope your day was better.
Your husband sounds like a real winner!

Hey Karen...

will he come take care of my girls? They're not as bad as your morning...but they're getting close, lol.

You'll have to tell him how many people think he's wonderful.

Dee