A Place For Everything...Sometimes

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Last week I innocently brought up the subject of organization on the eharlequin Superromance thread, which is a great place to hang out, since that’s where I met Sam. I mentioned that I have an entire bureau dedicated to my underwear and that my dainties are organized into categories. Believe it or not, people made fun of me for this and hinted that I was some kind of organizational maniac. Well, I do like to organize, but I’m fairly talented at living with clutter, too. It’s one of those pick-your-battle situations. Underwear was one of the battles I chose. My refrigerator is another matter.

My underwear was driving me crazy before I organized it. I could never find the one bra that looked right under a certain shirt, or my only white cami, so I started dedicating drawers to various garments. Now I can find exactly what I want, when I want it, unless I accidentally put the garment I’m looking for into my husband’s clothesbasket. My husband is actually a lot more organized than I am, but he keeps his non-hanging clothes jumbled in the basket. His day job is more exhausting than mine, since he teaches math, so during the school year he forgoes organization in the name of rest and sanity. He’s chosen his battle.

Which brings me to my question for the day—how much organization is too much? Or is there such a thing as too much? My house has examples from both ends of the organizational spectrum. I have a ton of weird stuff in my basement and none of it is organized, although it’s my dream to one day either organize the stuff or approach it with a flamethrower. My photos were once all carefully labeled and put into dated manila envelopes, ready for the photo album. But then I had kids and began to dedicate photo organization time to better things, like cleaning spit up peas off the high chair. I haven’t organized a photo since. I have, however, put all of my shoes into boxes with photos on the ends and stacked them in my closet. I can find the shoes I need ASAP, too. I’m starting to see, as I write this, that dressing is one of my organizational triggers. Perhaps if I wore my photos, they’d be organized.

So do you have organizational triggers? Can you find things when you need them? I know there are binder people out there—people like me who must organize all papers into binders, with dividers and labels and...pant...pant...Uh, yes. As I was saying. One must choose their battles. Which do you choose to fight?

Side note—I’ll be in Reno most of the day, but really want to hear your thoughts on this messy topic. I’ll respond when I get home.

Organization?? What's That?

Seriously, I have little organization at home aside from individual laundry baskets and catch-all baskets for each family member for when they walk in the door (keys, sunglasses, etc). I do have a mail-in and mail-out basket in the hallway, too, but that's about the extent of my organizational abilities.

My day job, however, demands organization and I'm proud to say that even with 300+ contracts, I can put my hands on any contract and any piece of paper you want to see, going back five years, in a heartbeat. I have spreadsheets and white-boards and file drawers and stand-up files to keep everything orderly. If only I could do this at home! But I know that although my family might support me initially, eventually it would all fall apart and I'd end up frustrated and resentful. I tend to tell my kids that if they want to keep control of their stuff, they'd best come up with their own methods for organization. My older daughter doesn't subscribe to this, but I have to say my 11-year old is an organizational freak, right down to her clothes hangers, which are all color coordinated to match her outfits. With her, if everything isn't in its place, she goes nuts. When I'm looking for something, I just ask Brenna and she always knows where it is. Not sure where she got that gene, LOL. Definitely not from me!

My daughter was like that

My daughter was like that when she was at home. All of her hangers were white. No other color was allowed in the color coded closet. Hmmm. Where did she get this tendency. When I had kids at home, chaos reigned. And if you saw my living room right now, after the first week of school, you wouldn't believe that anything I owned was organized.

I am very impressed with your work organization! That's a lot of stuff to keep in order, but I understand. Professional chaos is not tolerable. Personal chaos...who needs to know? :)

Organization? What

Organization? What organization?

Uh...

I'm sadly lacking in the organizational gene, much to my long-suffering husband's dismay. We don't have too much order in general :( We do have lots of piles though ;)

Estella and Fedora--I'm

Estella and Fedora--I'm certain you are the creative right brained sort. You see the big picture instead of compartments and can probably find whatever you need even if it is in piles. My son can and he's right brained.

Hmm...

I'm not feeling too creative, but hey, that sounds good to me! ;) And I'll have to try shopping for some nicer underthings--that sounds like fun!

My dresser

My dresser is one of the few places that I keep things in order. I don't have enough lingerie to warrant an entire new dresser just for it though. :-(

I go through moods where I'll attack things, shuffle, reorganization, discard, give away with the hopes that I'll keep things tidy but it never works out that way.

My craft stuff is the worst! I spent an entire Saturday doing all of the above just recently. Then I had two must make projects and everything is all messy again.

Maybe I'll at least get stuff put away again this weekend.

Well, I can try!

ani

Ani--we may be twins. Oh,

Ani--we may be twins. Oh, and I've only had enough underwear for a bureau since I discovered Ross two years ago and started buying $30 bras for $5.99 and $10 panties for $1.99. I found that the expensive undies do feel better--even when on deep discount, lol.

Jeannie, I would love to be

Jeannie, I would love to be organized, but I've accepted that it's not going to happen in this lifetime. At least, not for more than half a day. I have actually read books on how to be organized...they're buried under the clutter on my desk somewhere.

But my DH is very organized - I phone his office at least twice a day to ask where something is...
Abby

Too funny, Abby!

Too funny, Abby!