Do You Enjoy Multiple. . .Heroes?

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In the old days, life was simple. One heroine, one hero. Sometimes one lousy ex who’d come back and mess things up, or a villain who put the pressure on. These days, we are swimming in a sea of multiple heroes, and a heroine with choices to make. The more the better, right? Maybe. It depends.

In erotica, threesomes, orgies, and multiple partners are the norm, but in many books, even in category romance, we toy with the idea of more than one sexual partner or more than one love interest for the heroine. Off the top of my head, Julie Leto’s Blaze, Undeniable has a love scene where the heroine has a phone sex encounter with a man who is not the hero, and in Cara Summers’ Two Hot, you have a woman fulfilling her fantasies with two men she’s attracted to – sort of. Susan Kearney’s Extreme Blaze, Beyond the Edge has a hero who can multiply himself, sort of like cloning. ;)

In the summer anthology story I’m working on right now, for Summer 2008, my heroine meets two different men at the same time and toys with the idea of having both of them, but of course, there’s only one who’re really right for her. In category, the Harlequin promise still holds: one heroine, one hero, HEA. So we Harlequin writers have to get really creative to include more than one hero for one heroine.

Then there are the single titles, and the paranormals, particularly.

There is the ever-famous Stephanie/Ranger/Morelli triangle in Evanovich’s Stephanie Plum series, but after so many books of dorking around between these two men, readers are impatient, and in my view, a lot of the shine wears off Stephanie, who seems to be playing boths ends against the middle. I end up liking both heroes, but not Stephanie all that much. So, having multiple heroes is risky.

In Charlaine Harris’s Southern Vampire series, Sookie has no fewer than 5 men she is attracted to, sleeps with, wants to sleep with, and that’s way risky as well. For a while, it’s fun to have a few different heroes, and for readers to debate which one the heroine should end up with, but that can turn on a dime, and quickly become tiresome, and most of all, the sexual tension drains away in her flitting around. While these books aren’t billed as romances, they still read that way. They have the components, and "Who will Sookie end up with?" is a big question for readers. The jury is still out, though she has been making an effort to be more or less monogamous with Quinn in the last 2 books.

The exception is in epic-length stories, like Buffy, where the lifespan of the character extends long enough that events can happen which change the course of the character’s actions – but even so, Buffy had her lovers one at a time, and she was committed to each of them when she was with them. And of course, we know Angel will always be her one true love.

Patricia Briggs is doing it right – so far. Mercy has the choice of Adam or Sam, and Adam seems to be the winner, for good solid reasons, but Mercy is careful. She thinks things though and is a well-motivated character. She cares for both men, but she’s not a user, she’s not a slut, and she’s not stupid. To her, getting involved with someone has consequences, and she’s mulling it over, which makes for great romantic tension. I know who I want her to end up with.

And that’s the ticket, I guess – it’s fun to have multiple heroes, but too many cocks in the kitchen spoil the soup, and there has to be a clear leader for it to work, even if the heroine doesn’t make up her mind as quickly as we do.

I guess the obvious argument is why does she have to? Can’t contemporary, modern women have more than one lover and not have to be hearing wedding bells? Does she have to commit? Can’t she just play the field forever?

Sure, just not in romance. Readers enjoy the fun of choice and sexual tension, but ultimately I think we want the HEA, we want the heroine to choose, and to know who's right for her. Or maybe that’s just what I want.

As a writer, I am working on a paranormal with multiple heroes, and two heroines, for that matter, but for me, the book is a romance, and that means that while there are complications, there is only one clear choice for the heroine, one man she’ll end up with. I hope I’m doing it right. It was a big issue to balance in the writing.

Anyway, do you like multiple hero romances? Do you have any that you think do it right, or others that have botched it? Discuss…

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Not sure...

For me I think it depends on the characters. Some stories I can handle the multiple heroes and I like it, in others it makes me mad lol If it drags on, it does get tiresome and makes me want to read the story less. Like with the Plum series. I read 1-11 within about 3 weeks, and that was 2 years ago and I've yet to pick up 12. I got sick of it, nothing was moving forward. Also, I always want everyone to have a HEA and with triangles and such, someone gets hurt usually. btw, it's Buffy and Spike all the way lol and Angel and Cordy.

Hmmm...usually not for me--I

Hmmm...usually not for me--I know it's ridiculously narrow of me, but it's usually more of the frustrating/confusing rather than interesting/exciting opportunities... Maybe it's just because I'm a little simple and prefer my escapist fiction of choice to be uncomplicated in the ways that life often is not. ;)

Great topic, Sam!

Menage is a fun fantasy, but the romantic reality...urk. There's a reason my one and only true manage is still on the back burner. I can't work out how they get a HEA. I think it's always a risk to have more than one hero, because what if the reader bonds with or roots for the wrong one? Then the HEA is a disappointment. Or simply the presence of another man can overwhelm the hero's center stage. This happened for me in one of the Dark Hunter books; the other men were so fascinating, and the other potential love interest (Zarek, so hot!) became more interesting than the hero. So I think as a writer you have to be careful not to let other characters or subplots or interests detract from the main focus and the character you want readers to connect to and root for. And you're so right about losing patience and/or sympathy for the characters when the too-many-lovers syndrome goes on for too long. I of course read Beyond the Edge and loved the multiplying hero *ggg* but I can see why romance, especially category, doesn't have sexual encounters between the heroine and a man who isn't the hero as a rule; because you only have so much space to devote to building the relationship and showing why these two belong together, making the HEA believable. If the heroine's off experiencing sizzling sexual tension with Mr. Wrong, it's hard to make that advance the romance plot.

I like one hero and one heroine

I am tired of the plot in which the heroine must choose between two men. I love the concept of finding your one and only. I want the hero to be obsessed with the heroine and the heroine obsessed with the hero. I stopped reading the Plum series when Stephanie slept with Ranger. Call me old fashion, but when you love someone, you don't have sex with other people.

Multi Heroes

Who hasn't dreamt of having more than one man fight over us?! But, I think, the dream is better than the reality. You mentioned the Sookie books, Sam, but I don't mind Sookie having more than one hero because she's still seeing one guy at one time. In Sookie's world, where she's been an outcast for so long, it must be refreshing to know several men are interested in her or that she might be interested in them. That's how Laurell K Hamilton's books started out. She met one guy that she shouldn't be attracted to and one she was. And then she was seeing both. And then in the last one I read I think she was, regularly, sleeping with about 6-7 and there were others she "just had sex with". Which was too bad because the first half dozen or so books were amazing. Now I can't read them. And, yes, sometimes in erotica it's fun to have a little m/f/m but usually it's pretty clear as to which is the hero and which is the spare. But in my own life, I could never date (much less sleep with!) more than one guy at a time. I'm just not wired that way. If I was seeing someone but attracted to someone else, I'd stop seeing the first guy. It was only fair. So, for me, romance will always be two people. Only. ani

It depends

If I am reading erotic romance then I am ok with two heroes but if it isn't erotic then I prefer just one hero.

Heroes

The problem with more than one potential hero is that I might like the one who isn't going to be the hero the best. I do like to have the HEA so while a second possible hero can make the story exciting I want to see that the heroine made the right choice without the other guy being made into a villian.

For the most part I prefer

For the most part I prefer that there be only one hero, but it really depends more on the story. The trouble, as someone already posted before me, is sometimes if there's more than one hero I ending up liking the guy she doesn't pick the best.

It all depends on the author

I've seen some authors pull it off. But generally the heroine ends up with only one of the guys. For instance something happens to the guy she chooses (i.e. death) and she ends up going to the other guy. (Danielle Steele, Diana Palmer) Emma Holly wrote an ending in her book so that the heroine ends up marrying one guy, but hinted at leaving the door open for the other guy. Keep in mind that the guys are bi. I enjoyed the books because the authors were able to create characters that were each lovable while at the same time showing that each relationship meets different needs in the characters and that their needs change as they change. We may love someone but that doesn't always mean we are meant to be together. The endings are usually bittersweet, but leave you feeling hopeful because the books leave you with the thought that you get more than one chance at love.

Hey everyone!

Sorry for being an absentee blogger today -- my kitchen is in ruins, finally all of the cabinets and everything are ripped out, and the new ones were delivered -- 16 HUGE boxes, all in my living room, and one in the kitchen because it wouldn't fit through the door, so they brought it in through a window. Aiy. Just taking a break for dinner and checking in, and this is such a great discussion! Thanks so much for so many great comments...

I agree completely that in my real life, no way -- I am a one man gal, said and done.

Ani, I always get the impression that Sookie isn't completely monogamous -- mostly because of Eric. And to me, Eric is the one she should be with, but we'll see. But it's the fact that she's so easily slept with all these different guys in each book, simultaneously attracted to all of them, seems to me... I don't know. It's true she had a very isolated life, and she's sowing her oats, I suppose, but I think she's standing on the edge a bit...

Glad we all agree Stephanie Plum has gone too far -- I think it's a common sentiment, from what I hear out in online world. I'm done with the series, too. Unless I get news she marries Morelli in the next one.

Charli, I agree -- at best, Mr. Wrong can act as a mirror of sorts to push her more in the direction of the one she really wants. Have you read Megan Hart had a menage in Dirty that still had an HEA, and I think the third partner, Jack, has his own book -- is it Broken? I have it on the shelf but haven't checked it out yet -- agree, that's a difficult one to manage. I used to know a guy who lived with two women -- it seemed to work for them, but I never quite bought into it.

Anyway, almost time to go and eat and then get ready for the garage sale in the morning... ugh. I'll try to stop back this weekend, but you all go on and keep talking -- I really enjoyed the comments...

Sam

Sookie...

With Sookie, it has gotten tiring to me. Even if she seems to date one guy at a time, she is always thinking about the other guys. No matter what, she is never emotionally with just one of them. I think the closest she's gotten to that was with Eric, and I even felt kind of jipped with that considering Eric's circumstances at the time. And she changes her mind so often that I find myself having to play catch up. I still love the series though, and I too think Eric is where it's at lol

escapism vs reality

- seems to be a bit of a common thread here. We enjoy the fantasy of getting to have our cake and eat it too, but how many people ever make that work in real life? And while Harlequin is 'escapist', I think in a lot of ways they reflect what we want for our real lives - and we are wired to want security and a father for our children. Biological imperative. (We are also wired to fool around when we are ovulating: another biological imperative towards genetic diversity) so perhaps that's one of the benefits of romance and erotica - allows us to vicariously satisfy that need without destroying our primary relationship. I think with multiple partners there's always this slight unease that somewhere, somehow, its all going to go pear-shaped. Jack Thompson, the gorgeous Aussie actor, lived with two sisters for a while, but I think at least one of them left. I think also with fiction, there's the assumption that at some point, the heroine is going to choose. If you want it to be a successful menage-a-trois, I reckon you'd want to communicate to the reader that it is possible as an outcome. Otherwise you're getting torn between the two heroes. That whole reader-expectation thing. Reminds me of the movie, what was it, somethingorother Park, a romance that played like a thriller - I didn't know what was going on and kept expecting some sort of spy plot to be revealed. But it wasn't. Really confusing. cheers Euri

i don t mind it as long as

i don t mind it as long as teh story is needed.

multiple heroes

I don't mind if the story has multiple heroes but, I like the story to end with the heroine picking just one. Like some of the other posters, I usually wind up liking the guy that is tossed aside. It's even better if the author writes a follow up story, where the tossed aside hero, gets his lady. Mads:)

back again...

I'm trying to think of a book where I liked the second love interest as much or more than the hero -- one that comes to mind is Kay Stockham's Man With a Past, and Dr. Bryan, though it wasn't a three-way, he was interested in the heroine, though she was interested in the hero --we ended up feeling sorry for the Dr, and he has his own book now. ;) Same the Meghan Hart's Jack, from Dirty, though he wasn't a love interest -- his presence was completely as a sexual third.

In the Sookie books, I keep hoping for Eric. Seems to me the dynamic there for at least the first four books was that Eric was clearly the one for Sookie, and as she became more vampiric, darker, stronger, etc he became more human, more emotional, and that was a great dynamic, how they were traveling toward each other that way. It created great tension, because Sookie didn't want to be dark, and yet she seemed to be coming into her own, and Eric didn't want to care for her, or be emotional, and yet he was, and that's so compelling. Then it all just went down the toilet in book five, which is I guess where I lost heart a bit with the series.

I have several potential heroes in the paranormal I'm working on, they may have their own books if we manage to sell this first one, but in the book there's only one clear heroine, because that's the only way I can really think about doing it...

Interesting thoughts, though...

Sam

I love reading books with

I love reading books with multiple heroes. Lora Leigh's Men of August is a great series with three heroes.

Multiple Heroes

One of the first romance novels I ever read, some 30 years ago, was Love's Tender Fury, by Jennifer Wilde. Marietta ended up with Derek Hawk, who had purchased her as an indentured servant, but the real hero of the story was Jed Rawlins, the rogue who bought her from Derek and really, truly loved her. I cried my heart out when he was killed, and never did warm up to Derek when he reappeared on the scene. So while I do like multiple heroes, I'm always afraid I'll fall for the guy she DOESN'T choose.

awwww... :)

I know that feeling, goes back to Tale of Two Cities, when Charles dies... I think a lot of people root for the underdog, as long as he's worth rooting for. I love writing stories with characters whom I like so much they get to have their own book later... But it's fun to write creeps sometimes, too.

Sam

Oh, just found out...

eharlequin is having a Forbidden Fantasies sale -- here's the link

Sam