Good-bye. Keep in Touch! (But how...?)

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As you all know by now, Cigars is shutting down. This is both sad--as we all have such good memories here. And happy--as every ending is a new beginning. I can't thank everyone here enough for being so warm and welcoming. I'm not sure if I've been here a full year (I'm sure Sam could tell me!), but I feel as if I'm truly part of the family.

So where will you go now? What are your go-to romance blogs? Do you tweet? (I do--you can follow me at twitter.com/dianaholquist). Do you facebook? (I do--come and be my friend at facebook.com/dianaholquist).

I've been thinking a lot about blogs and blogging lately. To tell you the truth, I've become really tired of some of my go-to blogs. They seem, well, tired. I spend time on Twitter now,and read my old bloggers there. I think their energy had shifted away from the blog and onto Twitter. I heard on the radio today that the average teenager sends 80 text messages a day. Holy cow. That's a lot of texting. (Note: I've never sent a text message in my life.) I just found out that one of my books was made into an "App" that you can buy and download for your iPhone. I don't even know what this means. (No, I certainly don't have an iPhone...)

So are blogs done for you? Have you moved on?

I hope we'll keep in touch--somehow. But how? What's your new mode of communication?

Sad to see you go!

I am afraid I don't do Twitter! I have not got into that yet and I am not sure I will. I still enjoy visiting blogs but I have noticed that a lot have been shutting down lately! I guess everyone is moving on to better things. I myself don't like a lot of change, to stuck in the old ways. I guess I will stick with blogging a while longer. I also don't have an iPhone and don't do well with cell phone, I guess I am techno chalanged.

Just starting to "know" you

and now it's over. I barely have time to read blogs nowadays and I won't go on Facebook as a lot of my younger relatives are on it. I don't tweet or twitter either. I will revert to eHarlequin and a couple of author's blogs that I read once in a while. Even though I didn't comment all the time I really enjoyed lurking here. I got so I could recognize all the regulars that added comments to the postings. Wishing you lots of success in the future and take care out there.

the old ways...

Isn't it funny that the "old" way is blogging? To think we used to write letters with pen and paper...

keeping in touch

That's the great thing about the internet and pages like twitter and facebook, you can stay in touch with just a few minutes work, even if its just a tweets worth. I have not joined twitter yet, as of right now im hooked on facebook, and i've already friended you there so i can keep up with your wonderful writing there.
so its never goodbye, just till later.
It's been nice getting to know you, (anyone else her julie andrews??) sorry, couldnt help myself.
So until later......
jody

Great!

Thanks so much for the sweet words, Jody.

I love facebook--I'm on there several times a day.

(I definitely hear Julie...)

--Diana

Keep In Touch

Hi Diana,
I'm not on Facebook and I don't Twitter, but I'm sure I'll be seeing you around somewhere.

I do hope so...

I hope so, Jane. I guest blog around sometimes, so we'll meet again....

(So hard to say goodbye!)

--Diana

No twitter for me, but

I'll never understand the pull of Twitter, but I'm totally addicted to Facebook! I'll come find you. Good luck with your future projects!

Hi Betty.

Definitely find me on facebook. I do a lot there.

See you soon!

(So much better when it's not good-bye...)

--Diana

It's true...

As long as there is the internet, there will always be a way to keep in touch. Of course, they also make phones, and writing conferences, and the like. ;)

But, just to share my two cents on blogging -- it's not so much going away, as it is evolving. I've seen this over and over as online venues have changed in the 20 years I have been online, and it will happen again -- Twitter and FB are popular now, but they won't be hot forever. Something else will evolve out of them, eventually. eHarlequin and messageboards have flickered in and out of existence for years, I think because they tend to attract a group and form a certain community, but no doubt corporate sponsored messageboards like eHarl will have much more stability than a private one, IMO.

Blogging is much the same. It started out as a lot of people saying not much, and then it took on a new life as more people with things to say -- about entertainment, various industries, etc -- started chiming in. Now, it's moving to the next level, becoming more professionalized and formalized -- basically, the best bloggers are experts in their fields, and people want to hear what they have to say. They are being subsumed by publications, corporations, marketing firms, etc and paid to do their blogs. I know this because when I put on my freelance editing hat M-F, half of what I edit are professional trade blogs. These guys get paid to write their blogs (and paid very nicely, as well) because of their expertise. Sites like the Examiner pubs are taking this to the next level as well, publishing content from what are essentially local bloggers (also paid). I think it's a natural evolution, and that as you find more professional blogs, the more amateur and non-corporate blogs will probably fall by the wayside.

Now, here, we are professionals, and we do have things to say about the publishing industry, but that wasn't what our blog was about, and we weren't being paid for that opinion. ;) However, we met people, networked, promoted, all as side effects of just having fun and talking with friends -- not so shabby. :) I enjoyed it, for the time I've done it, and it had many, many benefits other than money, but the hundreds of hours I've put into it really do have to go to other things now, including the work I'm paid to do. I think this is probably true for a lot of bloggers.

Personally, I think blogging has some huge benefits over Twitter or Facebook -- we can have real sustained conversations here that we can't there. But that's also why we have email. I certainly wouldn't want Twitter or FB, as much as I enjoy them, to become the limit of my contact with people, because it's too public, and too limited (interesting opposition).

Blogging may never go away completely -- messageboards, online environments like MOOs and MUDS, etc and even IM, chatspaces, etc - are still out there, but the big wave of online communication is always moving, and it will be interesting to see what comes in the next phase.

Sam

MOOS and MUDS?

...I'm lost.

IM. Nope, IMNOT. Chatspaces drive me nuts. I don't get them at all. I recently listened to a live blog chat that was accompanied by an IM feed.....

AAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHH!

I need to go and have some tea and read a book...

About a year ago I finally

About a year ago I finally joined FB. I have really enjoyed that - mostly catching up with people I wouldn't otherwise. Extended family around the world and college & high school friends most specifically.

I have not yet seen light in regards to Twitter, LOL. One major social networking site is more than enough for me. For now....I'm sure someday I'll move up to the next thing. What will come after Twitter, I wonder??

I agree about facebook...

...the folks you re-meet there are priceless.

After twitter...maybe meower. Or is that just me because I'm a cat person. Barker?

Whatever it is, I'll see you there, I hope.

Farewell, but not forever ;)

Hi, Diana! So blogging is the old way now? Yikes! I'm finally on Facebook, but don't Twitter (yet--I shouldn't rule it out completely!) I still enjoy hanging out with authors at blogs, although it's true that the energy there varies :) I do admit that it's a rare occasion when I pick up a pen and paper to KIT* these days (*Keep In Touch--was I the only one to sign yearbooks this way? ;)) "See" you around!!

KIT, indeed.

See? We were cool before it was cool to shorten everything to a bunch of letters.

See you on Facebook!

--d.